The best advice you'd ever get is the one that you can never hear. Nobody will tell you not to date that guy or girl because the only way it will end is badly. You don't hear people say, " Hey, just when you think your summer is going great, your father will die suddenly." Nobody tells you " If you eat that you will get sick"
Sometimes things happen for a reason.
Crazy they may be but there is a reason.
God has a plan for you and He's in control of every situation. The best thing about my "Dad" is that He let's me make my own decisions, but is always there to help me if it wasn't exactly the best choice. My "Dad" supports me in ways that some people can't understand or choose not to understand. But He's always there.